Monday, June 20, 2016

spring is back

Jordan's first field trip: Frederick Meijer Gardens with Ruby's class!





Memorial Day



















 Memorial Day Parade Fun!







The girls say goodbye to their loft bed and spend their first night in their new room.

Our last afternoon, just him and I, before his sisters join us in the afternoons and he'll go onto full time school in the fall. He made us a bed on the deck and we laid with our faces to the sun.... Except for I secretly watched his sweet face and fell in love with him even more!
 The kids last day of school.  Always a bittersweet day for them since they love school!




 
Ruby fractured her wrist playing capture the flag at Camp Geneva and 3 days later, Jordan cuts his palm fixing our washing machine.

 A fun birthday party at the Berline Raceway.
 This guy: He is our dreamer, challenger, encourager, fun-loving dad, husband, friend. But he is not a washing machine repair man, as we discovered yesterday, 9 stitches later. But for everything else he is, we love and appreciate him!






Emmy goes to Dance School.  She loved everything about it!



Monday, June 13, 2016

love



 Yesterday our nation was attacked.  A gunman killed 50 people. 

 From CNN: ' The deadliest terror attack since 9/11 followed a clarion call (strongly expressed demand/request for action) by ISIS to its supporters in the United States to launch attacks during Ramadan, the Islamic Holy Month, which started last week.' 

The culprit: ISIS  
The victims: The LGBT community

We are at war!  And it's on our homeland turf.  What are we to do about this?  How do we overcome this?  There is so much hate.  So much intolerance.  And as a Christian, I feel I need to speak up.  Although I don't have the words to eloquently speak into this.  But the Bible does.  And appropriately, the words from the book of 1 John jumped off the page at me this morning.  Please, read this!  

1 John 3:
11For this is the message you heard from the beginning: We should love one another. 12Do not be like Cain, who belonged to the evil one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his own actions were evil and his brother’s were righteous. 13Do not be surprised, my brothers and sisters,b if the world hates you. 14We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love each other. Anyone who does not love remains in death. 15Anyone who hates a brother or sister is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life residing in him.
16This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. 17If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? 18Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.

1 John 4:
7Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 8Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 9This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. 10This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. 11Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.


13This is how we know that we live in him and he in us: He has given us of his Spirit. 14And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. 15If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in them and they in God. 16And so we know and rely on the love God has for us.
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them. 17This is how love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment: In this world we are like Jesus. 18There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
19We love because he first loved us. 20Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen.21And he has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.

1 John 5:
1Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ is born of God, and everyone who loves the father loves his child as well. 2This is how we know that we love the children of God: by loving God and carrying out his commands. 3In fact, this is love for God: to keep his commands. And his commands are not burdensome, 4for everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith. 5Who is it that overcomes the world? Only the one who believes that Jesus is the Son of God.


I guess what I am reminded of when I read this scripture is that as a Christian, I am called to love everyone.  Period.  No exceptions.  So that means even loving the ISIS man that wreaked havoc on the LGBT community.  If we have the heart of God in us, we would desire that all peoples and nations and communities would come to Him!  And to become VICTORS of this world of hate. 

My summary of this scripture:

From chapter 3:  Love even though the world will hate you. If I choose hate, I am a murderer.  Jesus is my perfect example and I need to pursue perfect love.

From chapter 4: God loved us first even in our broken, sinful state.  God is LOVE.  As Christians, having known God, we should also love one another (and that is how we will know if God lives in us.)  Rely on the love God has for us.  And that love is fearless and with that love, we love each other. 

From chapter 5: Everyone who loves the Father loves His child as well.  Whether that child be ISIS or homosexual or a selfish, impatient, broken and battered and angry, privileged white woman living out of her own self-righteousness (that last one would be me).

As a follower of Jesus, I get so angry when headlines about Christians include hateful descriptions.  If we are truly following Jesus' example, we would only hate evil but never people.  Do I agree with Muslims' beliefs?  No.  Do I encourage or condone homosexual activity?  No.  Do I pray for the lost who haven't found victory in Jesus?  Yes. In spite of our differences, they matter to God and Jesus died for us all!  I didn't do anything to deserve salvation and that's the same for every human being.  We are all broken.  We are all sinners.  And those of us that have accepted the salvation that Jesus gave up his life for need to love and fight for and pray to the means that others would know His love too.

So lets pray for this love to manifest itself into the ISIS community and the LGBT community and the Christian community that GOD would be glorified and His victories multiplied. 


Tuesday, April 26, 2016

family vacation : florida

I love to document vacations!  They are never quite predictable and there are such sweet memories to record!

We just got back from Florida!  We went to Ormond-by-the-Sea, for the second year in a row, once again with our friends, the Nienhuis' and the Koerts.  Although this year we stayed across the street from the beach in our own house.  (It was a $400 savings and we love to save...!)  Since we weren't staying at the same condo, we relinquished our rights to the pool but we didn't mind that at all!  The beach was amazing and such a blast!  But that's not where our story begins.  Let me start from the beginning!

We got a large part of the van packed on Thursday evening and we planned to leave on Friday at one.  Thursday night, Jordan was sick all through the night.  Neither of us, but especially Jordan, got quality sleep and all I could think was, 'how are we going to drive straight through and will Jordan be able to even ride if he's sick?'  The next morning, Jordan was pretty much in bed until an hour before we left.  Still nauseated.  Natalie had a morning field trip that interfered with our departure so she stayed home and helped pack but Ruby and Charlie went to school for a half day.

We met at 1:30 in the afternoon and started off!  Made a couple of bathroom breaks and ate dinner... and hours later, Jordan was still gloom and doom.  I didn't know how on earth we'd (I'd) be able to drive through but we made it.  Jordan took a couple of hours and we stopped for an hour to sleep at a rest stop but we still made it to Brian and Dorothy by 11.  It was so great to see them!!  They fed us lunch and we lounged and visited.  Jordan napped and was still not feeling well.  Emmy napped as well while the other three chased lizards and played in the yard.  Jordan woke up and shortly after Emmy woke too.  She went right to Dorothy and cuddled up by her... and then threw up all over her!  I felt terrible not knowing what was going on now and poor Dorothy!  Of course, she took it all in stride being one of the most gracious women I know!  We got out of there not knowing what was going on!

We got to the beach house and Emmy got sick a couple times more.  Aaron and Heidi walked over to see us and I practically slammed the door in their faces!  But after two hours, Emmy was perfect again.  We went to the beach and got some fresh air.  We didn't know what we were in for with the vacation.  (Especially after some large vehicle expenses days before leaving!)

So day 1 was not so great.  But thankfully, the rest of the vacation went down without a hitch! Jordan and Emmy felt fine on our first full day. We went to the beach at least by 9 every morning and stayed til 4ish, sometimes going back to the house for lunch, sometimes eating on the beach.  It was so delightful!  The kids hunted for crabs for hours each day.  And the remaining hours were spent swimming, burying each other, or the occasional nap.  Natalie made a really great booby-trap one night and the next morning we discovered that someone must have stepped in it!

We cooked in often and had a couple of meals with our friends who still hung out with us despite our bug.  No one else got sick!

A stroll on the beach at dusk with the kiddos was special... just us and them next to the mammoth ocean under a gigantic sky.  How small we were but huge my heart!

One night we ventured to Disney Springs with the kids. The kids pretended it was Disney World!  They loved it and we did too.  We got there around 8 and we didn't leave until after 11.  The kids had ice cream and they each bought something special there.  We sat down to listen to the amazing musicians and we walked under twinkling trees.  It was magical!  I admired each of the kids and Jordan while we sat in the warmth.  They are all so beautiful to me and I was struck once again by how blessed I am.  I can't believe this family gets to be mine.  The kids were troopers and it was a blast to be out with them so late.  I love how flexible they can be on vacation.  We got home late and slept in a little later the next morning.

AND!  We got to see Brian and Dorothy again!  Just a few short days after Emmy had thrown up on Dorothy, they came to see us again!  Unafraid of whatever it was that had marred our first day in Florida!  They had lunch and we spent some time enjoying their company!  And with teary eyes (mine anyway), we said goodbye again.  Those people... can't help but love them so much!

Our last day was spent on the beach, of course.  And it was perfect as always.  The girls liked to surf with their boogie-boards and got better all the time.  The dads buried the kids up to their armpits.

Also on the last day, a native Ormond Beach woman joined us on the beach with her young daughter.  We got to talking and she openly shared that she's anti-Christian... that Christians believe that in Revelations God kills everyone that isn't a Christian and they're doomed to hell. She shared that she is a Jew (although not a practicing one or very knowledgeable of her faith) and that they follow 'Father Abraham'.  Up until that point, she had hardly stopped to take a breath (we're talking over an hour's worth of words!) but as soon as she did I politely announced that I'm a Christian and that I sincerely valued what she had to say.  We chatted quite a bit more and I was able to explain what Revelations is really about: a loving God (who even in His wrath is holy and loving and all-encompassing in His perfection) and He gives chance after chance and proof upon proof of His existence, calling mankind to Himself so that they can join Him in heaven.  But unfortunately, even so, many will choose not to worship Him.  She listened and also respected what I had to say.  Her 'Father Abraham' provided the perfect testimony to use as to who God is and who our Savior Jesus is.  I just hope and pray it clicked.  Not by coincidence, I had my Revelations study along on the beach only this last day.  I had read and underlined only from the first page but I know it was about God's love.  I reached out to give it to her and as she grabbed onto it, I locked eyes with her and poured my heart out about who Jesus is to me.  She held the paper and so did I for some time and it was intense... not something I was expecting from myself!  She said she'd read it.  Meanwhile, my girls were talking with her 5 year old about Jesus!  I write this not for anything I did.  But out of gratitude for how God spoke through me!  It was exhilarating and divinely appointed!  And after looking back on it, I wonder if this lady was even real or if this was a practice run on sharing my testimony.  We've learned so much through Bible Study Fellowship this year on sharing the gospel... the importance, the urgency, the privilege!  I leave the study feeling empowered by the Holy Spirit, knowing what's at stake.  But then I avoid deep conversations and fail to make the most of every opportunity.  And for what?!  What could I possibly be afraid of?!  This woman literally walked up to me and started talking about 'religion.'  And directly confronted theories on what Christians believe about exactly the topics I had been intensely studying!  Something I am deeply passionate for!  And we were both keen to listen to each other's point of view.  But God had the last word in that intense moment when I didn't just casually pass off my bible study.  He used me not just for her benefit.  But for mine.  I CAN speak up about my GOD!  I CAN proclaim that JESUS is REAL!  And my testimony about my God CAN direct a change to the course of someone's life and eternity!  And I'm still praying for 'Lilly's mom' (didn't catch her name!) and that we have a sweet reunion in Heaven!  I can't wait to hear what her response was after reading about God's intense love, demonstrated by Jesus' sacrifice, for the first time!

The last morning, Justin and Mindy treated us to an amazing breakfast at their condo.  Such a TREAT!  We got on the road before noon and made our way to Fernandino Beach... the same beach we visited the year before in search of sharks teeth.  We searched for some time with no luck.  Jordan asked a fellow hunter what we should look for and she showed us her stash and shared a tooth with each of the kids!  After that, Charlie and I sat in one place and we found 5 just like that!  This is such  a great beach!  But a storm was brewing (just like the previous year) so we hit the road.  On our way into this beach area, we saw the list of flags and their descriptions.  Included was the purple flag that we had seen flying nearly everyday at Ormond Beach.  And we learned what it stood for:

Dangerous Marine Life!!  WHAT?!?!

We drove until we were just outside of the mountains (got stuck in another treacherous hail storm... just like last year!) and we got a hotel.  Slept great!  And got to enjoy the mountains for once in daylight!  We were back home by bedtime, another AMAZING vacation!!